Two times have there been an item for sale I have wanted. A hitch and more recently a tuner. Both times pm the seller to get pay instructions and definatly was the first responder and both sell to someone else without any notice or reply on payment instructions.. I like this forum but if that's how its gonna be everyone I might as well just stay on ebay. The tuner guy responded to me then then a few minutes after I said I wanted it sold it else where. I understand that if I had not responded back but damn people have a little integrity.